Shower Party
knowledge | July 3, 2010
If I were to organize a shower party for a friend who is about to get married, I would consider an entire-day-out or even over night with the people closest to her or him for that matter. Anyway, it’s the last time you get to really have much of her time before getting into a busy and complicated life after marriage.
We would practically spend the rest of the day outside doing our favorite paintball game. Since it is the safest activity we could enjoy before she gets to the altar, it is also an activity that will help build her character as a person and as a wife. It would be refreshing for her also after the long difficult process of preparation, to get dirty and wild in the paintball field confines besides the game of paintball can even train her on how to become a great wife by teaching her the value of patience, perseverance and determination. Paintball is a competitive sport that requires a lot of patience, honesty and determination characters that she may learn and may apply in her married life. We would have a fun, muddy day paintballing. She would love it more than the usual thing with sensual / macho dancers which is quite humiliating, sometimes, especially those not open to it.
Paintballing should make it almost complete, not the usual girly thing but she would love it as much especially that it would bring back some childhood memories – and the element of surprise would bring so much thrill. At night, the activity would be the usual gift-giving but it would be a pajama-party-type where we will all feel relaxed and comfortable. It is a good feeling also to spend the night together with all-girl-friends with all the drinking, smoking and food tripping, anyway, it is her last time to enjoy with us to the fullest because the next time that she will be with us will be with her husband and maybe her child whom we can take to a paintball game and maybe try to teach them the same values and characters that was learned by my friend during her stint as a paintball player. Well of course it would always be a good idea to throw a shower party that the bride to be will enjoy and not just going into a club and getting wild where things might go wrong and all of you will just regret it the next day, the bride-to-be may not make it to her own wedding day. It’s more valuable to participate in an activity that will build you up than tear you down.
Who would imagine that surprise shower parties like this will be injected with a paintball activity? It would come really unimaginable to the bride-to-be. It is something I could give her to show my gratitude for the beautiful friendship we shared, and now that she is about to marry, this is also an assurance that our friendship will continue to blossom.
Mitchell Perry regularly writes for ProlificPaintball.com, they carry such paintball equipment as a Paintball Gun and the Tippmann A-5, as well 1arg3 as many other items from a variety of manufacturers.